Should you accept the role of trustee?

If a loved one approaches you with an offer to serve as his or her trustee, you may feel a mixture of flattery and uncertainty. While it is an honor for someone to see you as responsible and trustworthy, the thought of being in charge of a trust may be daunting. 

It is normal to feel unsure about such an important request. Here are some guiding factors and questions to help you determine whether it is a good idea for you to accept the role. 

Know the duties

Before you make a decision, you must have a clear understanding of what a trustee does. A trustee is responsible for managing assets according to the terms of the trust for the benefit of heirs. Your role may involve the following duties:

  • Identifying and safeguarding assets
  • Thoroughly reading and adhering to the trust document
  • Consistently communicating with beneficiaries
  • Managing and distributing assets

These are just some of the financial and legal tasks you will need to accomplish as a trustee

Free time

Before you jump into accepting this role, you must think about whether you have enough time in your schedule. Managing a trust can take up a significant amount of time and effort, especially if it involves complex assets or instructions. 

Relationships with beneficiaries

Another factor to consider is how you get along with the beneficiaries of the trust. If there are mutual friendliness and respect, there should not be an issue. But if you do not like them or vice versa, it can be a difficult job. 


To be a good trustee, you must be able to act in a calm and level-headed manner, even amidst conflicts. This can be hard when you deal with family rifts and personalities. You may need to deal with beneficiaries who do not like you serving in the role. But if you have confidence in your abilities to handle these tough situations, you may want to step up to the plate.